Some people attend Church for reasons other than worship. This might include the desire to deepen their sense of belonging alongside meeting what Long describes as the need for human community. It is no great surprise to anyone that people go to church to be with each other as well as to be with God, but in the twenty-first century Church are these desires in conflict? What of those who wish to meet with God in solitude, or those who wish to participate and communicate without religion? Such expressions have been known in the past, but in which direction is the general flow? The reasons that people have stopped attending local churches are therefore twofold. On the one had spirituality has become a personal pursuit and is done in reading or meditating alone, or on spiritual retreats, rather than in the local parish church. Why join the church when I can meditate and listen to worship CDs at home? (Yet congregations founded on intimacy and small group modes of connection are also booming.) On the other hand, service clubs provide the needs of those who wish to be helpful and make friends in the local area without the need for religious activities. Why join the church when Lions Club makes me feel valued?
So how are such people to be lead?
 Thomas G. Long. Beyond the Worship Wars: Building Vital and Faithful Worship (Herndon, VA: The Alban Institute, 2001) 25.