This is the text of my minister’s message for the June 2017 newssheet at Lakes Parish Uniting Church.
Several weeks ago, I became part of a conversation on the topic of “getting over” trauma. The man with whom I was speaking has had a rough life, rougher at some points in his life than others, and he has a few memories that he is struggling to move past. My life’s story is similar, not that I have experienced what this man has experienced, but that I have memories which needed healing, and troubling relationships with organisations and people in my past which proved difficult to move beyond.
In Psalm 23:4 David writes of the truest source of security in his life, a steadfast knowledge which gives him the confidence to walk through the darkest valley without fear of evil: the confidence that the LORD is with him and that the LORD carries all that is needed to keep David safe. In Psalm 27:13-14 David declares his steadfast belief that he will see the LORD’s goodness while he lives, if only he takes heart in the wisdom that the LORD will come through for him. David is not expecting vindication of his faith after his death, as if Heaven is the answer and reward to all of life’s problems. That might be true, but for David the sure promise of God is that David will not die until David has seen God act for David’s benefit and God’s own Glory.
Experience has taught me, and then my studies in theology have supported this understanding, that God does not expect or require us to “get over” anything. If the life and songs of David tells us anything it is that God takes the faithful woman or man “through”, not “over”. We are to walk through the valleys of shadows, we are to continue through life with patient confidence, and we are to do so in the company of the shepherd who walks beside us or sometimes a step ahead of us with his crook and staff.
I have a book mark which reads “Patience is not to sit with folded hands but to learn to do as we are told.” There was a time in my life when what I was told was to sit and wait for God, and I obeyed and sat. But much of the time the call to trust and obey requires that we continue moving forward, even when it is dark and even when the shadows creep towards us. His presence, assured to us in scripture, is Christ’s blessing upon all Christians in the world.